3rd Month!

Hi Everyone! Today is our 3rd month anniversary. You should know who the 'we' are. Anyway, i went to the beach again, i would have prefered palawan but they said there was a wakeboarding comp of sorts. But we didnt get to catch any action anyway. I find the most difficult part of my body to tan is the legs, they never get tanned. The shoulders and chest however, turn dark easily. Is there some sort of logic to this? Maybe the skin up there is more sensitive? I also have one of the most annoying type of tans, those that will bug you a lot but no one will really notice anyway; a slipper tan.

A nice prelude to the end of the 3rd month and the beginning of the 4th.

Notes:

1. will load pics for this outing soon, left cam in ben's car.
2. have more new desktops, will load soon enough.
3. i have started working again!

Ben wonders....what shall i do when i get home??hmmm.... 

EXTRA! EXTRA! Read All About It!!!!!

Breaking News!! Seen here on the left is the newest Panda on loan to the Singapore zoo from Hong Kong! Catch her snoozing at Boon Teck Tower while u can!! 

you want a kiss? 

yeesh!! No! 

but where is goldilox?? 

and jr bear 

mother bear 

father bear 

our weather forecastor after 2x correctly predicting the impending rain is tired after his completed quest. 

say hi!! our dearest ah beng in his quest to become "muthu".. 

Good Day

Woke up bright and early at about 9....was supposed to wake up earlier but tired la. Wash up and head out for the beach today..with my friends(namely my ex-classmates). Reach on time but were waiting for some people so we ate something at the food court. Rains clouds were looming in the distance and we were hoping it doesnt rain...had a little drizzle but when we reached the beach..the sun came out!! for the glory of my arrival...(how cheesy is that)..We proceeded to find a spot ...and found a perfect one, under the lifeguard's tower..and near 7-11 as well.So we bummed around, tanned a bit, played with bibi(suwan's dog), watched the guys play ball.More or less a day for relaxing after the exams. Who wants to do strenous stuff when the exams were to tiring?? We moved from palawan to siloso at about 3 and we just had to walk into the sentosa Island Life shop, and i just had to try that pair of pink board shorts, sigh. Had to control myself. Let's make excuses for me not to get it. Although it looked nice, it was rather constricting down there as it was just an S. Although it looked so nice, it is S$30, yes that's it, that's the bottom line. Left at about 4 as it looked like it was about to rain. True enough, it started pouring when we reached the chalet.

Called ben to tell him it was raining too heavily, might not make it to meet him. So then he offered to pick me, in Sentosa. Sweet? Decide for yourself.

We went to PS to catch Ladder 49. After this show, you really learn to appreciate what firefighters do. Their motivation, their courage, why they do what they do. Knowing that they're families are proud of them inspite of all the job-risks. We realise firefighters arent the only ones doing these things. The police force, SCDF, Army, Navy, Air force. Although there are many problems with the army now, in times of need(if they ever come), they will be the ones protecting us.

I had a very good day, with my hunny and friends. Its a good balance.

Last Day!!

Apologies for the delay in blogging recently. I am currently in the midst of my examinations. My last paper is at 6pm later today. Good luck Guys. Rock on.... 5 more hrs to go. Wish me luck.

wow!! you can see my figure...i look like a pear! but i think this picture is rather nice..has a sense of mystery surrounding it 

this is a sample of the stupid things we get up to in school when we are bored. let's play a game...guess whose fingers these are?... 

pity you can only see the front..but i guess its enough for me 

ben now has a new car and the car i was sitting on is now gone..sigh..will miss this car. 

my attempt as a pseudo professional photographer..good? i have finally found a way to load photos again!!! 

Humanity & its ingrained Selfishness

Why is it, when you progress through a relationship? People start to tell you to think about if your potential spouse can support you in the future or not. What is this idea of being a tai-tai (essentially useless bum)and just sit around the house when you'll probably have a perfectly useful piece of paper stored somewhere in a file and a 100% well-oiled supercomputer called a brain.

Have we progressed to a calculative and selfish race who live only on the ideals of money and comfort? I dont believe that i should let all the work go to ben and do nothing on my own, as i believe that ben wont do the same to me. I know that in the future, commitment is also a type of responsibility, where you share tasks and integrate ur life into each other's. If love is enough, you wouldnt want the person you love to suffer alone, you would want to see him smile and be happy with you, to work together to make a life that belongs to you. I believe it is, that love should be enough to sustain you. Somehow, many a time, it is not the case. Call me an idealist if you will, i feel there isnt enough idealism in this world. But i also know that idealism without a pinch of realism is just plain daydreaming.

I know i have lived a sheltered life and not known what it is to want. I do know however, that you have to work in order to get what you want. Many people these days it seems, mumble and grumble about daily life being monotonous and boring but fail to see the big picture. What big picture you may ask? It may seem a little morbid but isnt the big picture how you want to be remembered when you are gone? Isnt that also some sort of goal? I want to be known as a good daughter, a good sister, a great life partner, a good friend, a well-loved person.

Why is it in this century, people(particularly young people in developed nations)have morphed from a human race into selfish individuals? What do we want? What are we working towards? What are we becoming? Shouldnt we be asking ourselves these instead of asking...oh is that lv bag real or fake? Why are our idols paris hilton instead of someone who contributed greatly to the improvement of mankind, like Mother Teresa.

Wallpaper Website

Attention...All my wallpaper designs will be loaded on to this website from now on. Please go there to "look see look see" frequently. I will drop a note here if i load new ones. Currently there are MANY new ones as i have been on a frenzy lately.

Yours truly,

Debster