Its offically the first day back at school and suwan has pretty curly hair 

Baby is sleepy after all that excitement. Time to go home. tata 

Yes!! I DEFINITELY grew fatter!!! 

I get a kiss! Anyway, i think i grew fatter, evident in the face. 

4th Month!  

Recent Happenings

Lots of happenings recently, other than going out clubbing again, i went on shopping sprees with mummy and got some new stuff. During one of those sprees, we got a henna hair dye thing from body shop and now its on my hair, waiting to be washed off. Hope it turns out well. Went out with Jane today to do some shopping, well after the shopping sprees recently, dont really see anything i like.

Clubbing was rather okay, we went to devils and it was very packed that night. Marvelle was supposedly coming as well, but she was so late that she arrived 10 mins after i left. The music wasnt really as good as i remember, i prefer China Black.

Will load photos sometime soon

Quote of the Day

If you have your nose up in the air all the time,
You wont know when to avoid the dog shit all around.

You Are Right Brained In Love

Bit of a drama queen

Peacemaker, first to end a fight

Good at thinking up creative dates

Tend to fall in love and get hurt easily

Going with your gut instead of your head

Emphathetic and caring, sometimes to a fault

Good at recognizing patterns in relationships

Been in love many times, perhaps too many to count

Wildly passionate and intense when falling in love

Spontaneous with relationships, going with the flow

Overly visual - can play back past dates like movies in your mind

Roses, love poems, and stuffed animals are a good start to winning your heart




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4th Month

It has been 4 fantastic months with my baby, i feel the relationship has gradually mellowed from its highly charged days into a more simple relationship. It's just as strong but more stable.I know although Ben hasnt been very attentive lately(but as he assures me), it doesnt means he loves me less. I know i can be very sensitive at times and maybe i'm taking him for granted. But i love him, i appreciate the little gestures he makes even more now that he does it less. Like i'd be really happy if one day he just showed up in a shirt, cos he rarely does anymore or if he decided to take me to the zoo. Truth be told, i'd be happy just spending the day bumming about in his place or mine. Singapore doesnt have to be exciting, for me to enjoy myself with my honey. You probably wouldnt find the city you lived in all your life exciting..but it is peaceful here(in certain areas). Maybe next month, i could suggest something, and we could spend a day doing something fun..

Actually, the pictures only show the girls, BUT! there were also 2 camera shy boyfriends in attendance. They were none other than Gim Yong and Ben (j-fyi) 

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She was giving me a flying kiss, Pardon her 

Wow! May's face looks smaller, testament to her face behind looks smaller theory 

and Debby the Mirage 

May the Ghost 

The girls in attendance that day were(from left to right), Qinyi the sweetheart, May the cutie and Debby the clown. 

That day, after much(actually only 10 mins) debate, we decided to settle at Thai Express, AGAIN. 

My first Sailing

hmmm...My first experience of Ben's Sailing was rather alright. It was on a saturday and he left rather early. It was okay cos i had my stuff to do too. Went shopping with my mom and kei. Luen chose to sleep at home, so too bad for her.

Went home at about 9 plus, i'm not too sure actually. Ben called me at about 12 but he actually came back earlier, just didnt have the chance to call me. I think i went to sleep at around 1, i think.

We had to get up the next day to go for out Aunt's shop opening thing. She said to get stuff from her shop instead of buying stuff. So mom got a pair of diamond earrings and necklace for my 2 sisters to share.

Ben sounded extremely groggy, more groggy than usual. It turns out that he went for zouk out but didnt tell me. I got quite pissed. I suppose it was because he slept almost the whole day and i didnt know the reason( i knew if he slept at 2, he wouldnt be THAT groggy). However, it might have been partly due to the fact that i already wanted to go with him when zoukout was confirmed. He was complaining ever since the knew that his sailing fell on the zoukout date. I thought about asking jane/zhen/a few others who'd go and maybe go with them but i held myself back. I was desperately trying to hide how dissappointed i was cos i was really happy to see him.

Dinner with the girls

Had Dinner with the girls, qinyi and may. Gim Yong came along as well, so i brought ben along to meet them. May keeps saying we're very cute together. Oh well, i'm happy with ben, that's all that matters to me. Lynn couldnt make it, one less than the usual fab four. We had dinner at Thai Express....AGAIN!!! cos the restaurant Qinyi suggested was too expensive. I think ben was comfortable with them but he didnt say much. He thinks may is very cute and Qinyi is very talkative. We walked around wisma a little, didnt see anything attractive. Maybe topshop was ok but i didnt see anything i wanted to BUY. Maybe i really am over that extreme shopping phase thing. But i wanted to buy the undies, i think i need more, i have to throw away a lot of old ones.I'm just so tired everyday i dont really feel like shopping. Anyway, we finished with Qinyi and gang at around 10pm, but we were meeting Jane and gang at 11pm, so we ended up watching the Singapore Idol results show at Heeren till we got who won..YAY!! Taufik! Then we drove down to park behind China Black.

Yes it's Ladies night and the feeling's right

ALL THE LADIES IN THE HOUSE SAY YOO...

Ladies night everywhere, so me and a few of my friends were supposed to go to China Black, we met up at 11 plus. Skipped the queue and got stuck at the cashier, cos apparently, black is full, so they couldn't let anyone in. We stayed there for quite a while before deciding to move to zouk. At zouk, it was even more chaotic because we couldnt even make out the queue. Even if it was ladies night, places were never this packed. It turns out last night was the last night of A levels(go figure) or maybe ppl came out after Singapore Idol. Anyway, ben's friend louis managed to get us in first but we couldnt bring jane and sijing in (the manager guy say cannot). They let us in through the members entrance and got stuck at the staircase, apparently something was happening there was all sorts of shouting ( i even heard breaking glass at one point). so we chose to go left, up the staircase and into Phuture, wot a bad choice!! We moved moved, and got some bar space, but we ended up being squashed against it and being pushed by the never ceasing movement of people. There seem to be a never ending line of people going left and right in and out and to do that, they had to pass by us. After a while, jane got into zouk, so we moved there. My baby danced with me!

Mambo Night was the usual with all the "action" people. The music was all retro!!! but in between the played some good songs, maybe to pacify those who didnt enjoy the retro all that much. Think the angmohs must have been thinking, "what kind of shit club is this?". Danced a little with jane and sijing. After a while of exertion, we managed to get 2 bar stools, so ben and me just sat and rested.

I think the point of clubbing is to see and be seen, enjoy yourself sometime. But mostly the whole place was swarming with hot blooded men in packs, maybe trying to get lucky or just have some fun, i dont know. I really wonder what is the next trend us fickle singaporeans will pick up on. Imagine when we were just 16, the whole thing was like labelled "ah beng" and if you were really a regular goer people would just label you an "ah lian". If someone would resusticate the old place at taka sparks used to occupy would they make money? Even Shaw Plaza ( ulu shopping centre near my house) has a hip new bar. Not the kind of ah peh bar but the trying to look hip kind. Oh well...the whole town will probably be out at sentosa this coming saturday, maybe if you went this sat to china black or just watch movies or anything, there might be less people. Just a thought.